Wow, just like that we are 31 days into 2018. It seems like just yesterday we were ringing in the New Year. The days and weeks have passed as if they were on an unending conveyor belt. Now here we are peering into February, girl scout cookies in hand, battling to keep hold of our new year’s resolutions. Oh, we are fighting the good fight, but those damn Thin Mints are so amazing! Nevertheless, we fight on!
My resolution to hit the gym early has hit a snag with the sinus infection and illness in the house. There are so many people around us that have the flu, so we’re doing everything we can to avoid it. Unfortunately, this means foregoing the morning workout for additional sleep. Once I kick this sinus infection, you can bet that I’ll be back.
As I drove home tonight, my mind was a conveyor belt of thoughts. I know, I know a blonde thinking. You’re probably imaging steam coming out of my ears and you’d be right. I played sports growing up in multiple organizations as did my brothers. I can’t say that our sports careers were perfect or picturesque, but I would say that the leagues and organizations we were part of actually followed the rules.
In contrast, my kids experience is wildly different. In fact, once they’ve aged out, I’ll write a book about it. Of course, I’ll have to label it carefully as non-fiction because people won’t believe the stories and anecdotes I have to share. Here’s my biggest frustration. If you have rules as a league, why aren’t they enforced. More to the point, why are they selectively enforced?
I can’t for the life of me understand how our league works here. Truly, it is diametrically opposed to what I grew up with. Moreover, when we’re back in Minny and we speak to Goalielocks’ coaches or are friends whose kids play hockey, they look at us sideways. They can’t believe the stories we’ve shared. It’s the same sport, but wow what a difference.
I guess it goes back to the sliding scale of accountability, which drives me bat shit crazy. If you have rules, you should equally enforce them across organizations, teams, and players. If you sit one player for being late, you should sit them all. Its no different than how you would/should operate in a corporate environment – everyone is subject to the same rules regardless of who they are or how they perform. I know, I know, common sense or at least I thought.
Anyway, this aggravating conveyor belt of thoughts is driving me to Samoas, so I’m going to cut my losses and go hang around for a bit in my silk. Tonight’s song performed by CNCO ft. Little Mix is “Reggaeton Lento.”