Life with teens is oh so fun. I knew getting into this whole parenting gig that we’d be in for it when our sweet, darling baby became a toddler. Yeah, they were right. When our kids were toddlers many a tear was shed by them and us. In fact, for the first two years of his life, I was convinced the Mayor was an 88 year old man from Boca trapped in a toddler’s body. He was that cranky. However, it seems nothing can prepare you adequately for the beast that is a teenager.
There are quite a number of similarities between the toddler and teenage stage that i have notice.
- Temper tantrums – While they once threw temper tantrums over losing blocks, not watching Caillou or other very serious toddler problems, as teenagers they now lose their ish over the simplest of things. For example, you should always proceed with caution when asking teen to go to bed, take shower, do homework or god forbid to do a chore.
- Rock solid logic. Have you ever argued with a two year old? No, there’s a reason for that. Its a zero sum game. The beauty of teenagers is their intellect and their vocabularies are a little more mature. For example, tonight I asked Goalielocks to take a shower right after practice, so he doesn’t keep everyone up with the commotion. His response, “great well I guess I don’t get to eat tonight.” Now mind you, he had pizza before going to practice. Another favorite of mine is their argument that we want their animals today because we won’t take them to Petsmart or Petco immediately. To date, we have not lost an animal due to a delayed trip to the pet store.
- Their taste is music is equally horrible as it when they were a toddler. Only when their teens, the music is a much more insidious albeit still simplistic. If you’re curious what I’m referring to check out the song “Gucci Gang.” They also think Tupac wasn’t a real rapper and sucks. No further explanation is needed here. You’ll be begging for the muscial stylings of Sesame Street in no time.
- Their personality is often amplified as both a toddler and a teen. Did you have a strong willed toddler? Well, boy oh boy, are you in luck because you’re about to have a strong willed teenager. (I’m praying for you now.)
- Stubbornness is a trait that both age groups excel at and is so pleasing to parents.
- They’re silly. At least they share some good traits, eh.
- Whether or not they will ever admit, teens need their parents. In fact, they need us just as much as a teen as they did when they’re a toddler. The dynamic may shift, the aggravation level will increase, but they will need you. Moreover, they will need you as a parental figure and not a friend.
- As a toddler, you’ll clamor to enroll them into the best preschool. While when they’re a teen, you’ll agonize over secondary and higher education options. It is a bit overwhelming at first, but I’m hoping by the third one we’ll have it mastered.
Each and every stage of the boys lives has been an amazing chapter. Our oldest is an adult, which sounds odd every time I say it. My oldest has become an amazing man and is proof that the hubby and I can survive life with a teenager! Tonight’s song performed by Nirvana is “Smells Like Teen Spirit.” I loved this song when I was a teenager attending junior high dances where we’d all bang out head to that song. For me, it also represents Jake’s awakening into music. It wasn’t too long after he started choir as a high school freshmen that he began to discover real good music. Nirvana was one of the first, of many, bands he discovered.