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Off He Goes

Off he goes to Vegas. The Hubby is heading west for some much-needed time off with his boys. Hopefully, they’ll do well in the casino since our washing machine just broke. We’ve been in the house for 18 years (this coming July) and this is our 4th or 5th washing machine. These appliances are shit. I wish we could buy appliances that lasted decades like our parents and grandparents. Instead, we’re forced to buy overpriced shit that will last less than five years. Appliance manufacturing is an exercise of mediocrity.

While he’s off in Vegas, I plan to do mostly nothing. Saturday morning the Mayor and I will be meeting my brothers for brunch, which will be nice. Enjoying brunch on the ocean never gets old. It’s simply divine. Aside from brunch, I’ll probably bake some more bread and some puppy treats. I liked the rustic Italian loaf I made last week, so I’ll probably make that again. Additionally, I may try my hand at focaccia afterward. Otherwise, I’ll continue to do what I do all week, which is binge shows on streaming services.

For the rest of the afternoon, I’ll be watching yet another show on Acorn because I’m bored. Afterward, I’ll head to the airport to drop off the hubby. Hopefully, the weather will cooperate and won’t be the proverbial fly in the ointment to his trip. Otherwise, he’ll spend his night gnashing his teeth at FLL or MDW, which would not be fun.

What Olympic sports do you enjoy watching the most?

I have two answers to this question, which I think is fair given there are both summer and Winter Olympics. My favorite summer Olympic sport to watch is women’s gymnastics. I can’t wait to see Simone Biles and company in action in Paris later this year. Gabbi Douglas is back as well and I’m hoping Suni Lee can compete.

As for the winter games, I love watching hockey. I cannot wait for the NHLers to be back in the games. One of my favorite memories from the rink is coming off the ice from a mite game to watch the end of the US vs. Russia game. The third period ended in a 2-2 tie. Bob (Sergei Bobrobsky) was in the net for the Russians while Quick was in the net for the Americans. The shootout went several rounds until TJ Oshie put it away. He had Bob’s number scoring on 4 of his 6 shootout attempts. The lobby of the rink erupted; it was awesome.

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Books

Since the New Year, I’ve read several books. My daily bedtime ritual is to put my phone up and read for 30 minutes to an hour before going to sleep. Thanks to Hillary Mantel’s Wolf Hall series, I’ve been stuck in Tudor England for a while now. Nevertheless, I started the new year off differently. This year I started with Richard Ayoade and his comedic book Ayoade on Top, which was gifted to me by Jake.

I read the following books in the first quarter of 2024:

  • Ayoade on Top is Richard Ayoade’s hysterical take on the movie View from the Top starring Gwyneth Paltrow. His writing is as humorous as the movie is ridiculous. It’s a nice quick read.
  • The Princes in the Tower by Alison Weir. Weir makes a compelling case for who killed the Princes in the tower. I have to say I agree with her.
  • Queens of the Conquest: England’s Medieval Queens by Alison Weir. This is the first in Weir’s trilogy focusing on England’s Medieval Queens. It starts with Queen Matilda, wife of the Conquerer, and brings us up to the start of the Plantagenet dynasty.
  • Queens of the Crusade: England’s Medieval Queens by Alison Weir. The second volume of the trilogy covers from 1154 to 129. It begins with Eleanor of Aquitaine, arguably Medieval Europe’s most famous Queen.
  • Queens of the Age of Chivalry: England’s Medieval Queens by Alison Weir. The final volume in her Medieval Queen trilogy, Weir takes us from 1299 to 1409. This volume includes Isabella of France, known as the “she-wolf of France” for overthrowing her husband the king to the beloved Phillipa of Hainault.
  • Hunting the Falcon: Henry VIII, Anne Boleyn and the Wedding that Shook Europe, by John Guy and Judy Fox. I’ve read numerous books both fiction and nonfiction on this topic and quite enjoyed this book.
  • To Shield the Queen, by Fiona Buckley. Finally a return to historical fiction. This one takes place in Elizabethan England. This is book one Buckley’s Ursula Blanchard series. I enjoyed the book, but I’m not sure I love the main character. I’m gonna give Book Two a go and see what I think afterward.
  • My Lady of Cleves by Margaret Campbell Barnes. I enjoyed the historical fiction on Anne of Cleves. She’s a fascinating character who managed to survive and thrive in Tudor England. The author does a good job of capturing Anne’s vulnerability and her strength. My only complaint is the author relies on some old tropes about Anne of Cleves appearance and weight. I don’t think she was built like a “Flemish mare” as Henry the VIII put it.
  • Blood and Roses: One Family’s Struggle and Triumph During the Tumultuous War of the Roses, by Helen Castor. Castor’s book is based on the Paston letters, which is the largest collection of letters from 15th-century England. Caston uses the Paston letters to describe the Paston family’s experience in post-Black Death England and throughout the War of the Roses. So far it’s super interesting. I just started it on Sunday, so stay tuned.

I know what you’re thinking. I am a huge nerd, but hey at least I’m consistent. Truly, it’s been fascinating the experiences of powerful women from the past. Some had a lot of agency and power, while others were silenced. A lot also died in childbirth despite having the best medical care in the land. I’m grateful to live in a time where things like the bubonic plague won’t wipe out half the population.

How would you improve your community?

I would put an immediate moratorium on 55+ communities. They’ve taken over our area and it’s terrible. Unfortunately, the people who move into them tend to be exceedingly rude, obtuse, and terrible at driving.

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Nonsense

Insurance has made medicine absolute nonsense. I had a follow up appointment with my primary this morning. Aside from checking in, I felt compelled to share my recent experiences with Cigna. To say she could commiserate is an absolute understatement. She recently had an insurer deny a CT scan for a patient even after she did a peer to peer review. When the patient opted to pay out of pocket, the insurer told my doc that no issue found on that CT would be covered by them as they didn’t approve the scan. What absolute nonsense is that?

To make it worse, I wemt on X and saw all the politicians bragging about how they’ve made care more accessible and affordable. It’s honestly laughable because nothing could be further from the truth. The insurers act with impunity making it harder and harder for insureds to get care. Most people don’t have the knowledge or ability to fight back, which means there will be a bigger disparity in the healthcare people receive.

Anyway, it doesn’t help that I then come into work and deal with nonsense all day. At least the day has been consistent. I’m still on the pilot program, which means I spend my day watching British tv. I hate being bored and yet here I am. Also, Goalielocks went back to school, which is a bummer. Truly, I like having him home. The house is a bit more boisterous and joyful with him here.

How have you adapted to the changes brought on by the Covid-19 pandemic?

I’ve adapted by living my life and being considerate of others. If I’m sick, I don’t leave the house. Lastly, I try to be more kind.

Today’s music video is Norwegian Wood

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Easter

I hope all who celebrate had a wonderful Easter. I know we sure did. Unusually, we were able to sleep in on Easter morning. No longer were there kids begging us to get up, so they could find their baskets and their hidden eggs. Since only Goalielocks was home, we didn’t even get their baskets out of the attic. We put the candy out on the island for all to enjoy. When Goalielocks goes back to school, I’m sending it with him. Lord knows I don’t need that stuff in my house.

We met the Burrage’s at church for Easter Service, which was fantastic. Goalielocks ran into someone that he graduated with from West Boca. Now he was the class joker and a pretty popular guy in high school. Goalielocks pretty much knew everyone and everyone knew him. Elijah, who is autistic, shared an English class with Goalielocks. Elijah was so excited to see Goalielocks and show him off to everyone.

It was a really sweet interaction. Moreover, it gave me insight into how my son treated people in high school. I mentioned this to him and he said “What did you expect? How did you think I treated him?” All while looking at me like I’m a fool. The questions he asked made me happy. Our children may not be perfect, but you hope they go into the world and treat people with kindness and love no matter what.

Anyway, I digress. After church, we headed to Melly’s folks’ house for brunch. We had a very tasty quiche. I mean eggs, cheese, cream, and vegetables what isn’t to love? In addition, there was some tasty spiral ham, which paired perfectly with the rustic Italian loaf I had baked. Naturally, there were also fruits and a salad on the table, but I was too full from the quiche to enjoy them. A girl had to have priorities and yesterday it was quiche.

The rest of the day was spent chilling at home with the puppies watching Euphoria and going for a run. We popped a pizza in for a quick dinner, which hit the spot. I spent most of the night trying to avoid eating the jelly beans and Cadbury eggs I had set out for the boys. That was definitely easier said than done.

What are your morning rituals? What does the first hour of your day look like?

My morning ritual always starts with walking the dogs one at a time. They’re far too strong for me to walk them together. After I walk the dogs, I give them their donut. Once the dogs have had their treat, I fill up the bird feeders out front. Once the dogs and birds are fed, I sit down with my coffee and watch the Great British Bake Off until it’s time to work.